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Jes Johnston's avatar

I just got a chance to read. What a phone call. What special, honest interactions with Josh you have. Impressive to see your lovely, genuine conversations and the way that you even share all of this with the world. Powerful stuff.

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James Bailey's avatar

Jeff, this is beautiful. The story, the words, the seminal moment between you and your son.

The best example we can set for our kids is to keep moving in the direction of what brings us alive.

I might offer another perspective on your sharing - that we all struggle to stick with things that are too small for us, things that don't ignite our passion. It's as if we all, even as adults, are trying to figure out what we want to be when we grow up. And in our struggle to figure it out, comes a tension from moving toward what feeds our soul while also providing for our family if we have one. We may need to close the door on a job, or a vocation, or move to a different place, to create the space to open up what is next, to get in touch with what brings our heart and our soul alive. I think there is a lesson your son will take, respect he already has and will notice even more over time, in you NOT sticking with those things that don't bring you alive.

Thank you again for the beautiful story.

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